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There is a saying, “No one comes to hurt us but ourselves.” Our life is us who decide the happiness or sorrow is up to us to choose for ourselves which path to walk? There is no one to help us except ourselves, everything we build is our own, no one comes to take our place. The Buddha states, “Self-reliance, self-reliance, self-reliance, self-reliance, how can others be relied on?” In life, people must have self-control in choosing and must choose wisely. On the other hand, people have to fulfill their duties in life, know how to build their own success in life and know how to process their life well. Everyone should not lie down, lose their position, everything depends on others.
You can say that life is a choice, because in the life of each person can be happy or sad, it is up to the person to choose what they have experienced to achieve. Its fate. People with low intelligence have fear in their hearts, they will not have enough mental independence to choose. Lack of self-confidence will make people skeptical, hesitant and have a complicated mind, not daring to choose what happens to them, which sometimes sometimes miss the opportunity. On the other hand, if you choose to put what you have experienced into your life without using your judgment, you will be very vulnerable.
There are many things that people make the wrong choice because they do not know how to choose the right thing. This does not mean that people are not wise in their choice, just that they are not carefully examined. Here are the things that people have to choose carefully in life to make themselves happy in life:
Couples
Choosing a future partner, which we often say is a hundred-year-old friend, if you make the wrong choice without observing each other, loving each other passionately, because seeing the physical or wealth, you will not get There is no real peace, because no one has lasting beauty. Fools make love by pleading with lust and obsession with love, so they do not get the true peace of being in love. Some people are in love, quarreling almost in the morning and evening, they have endless conflicts, they do not live in harmony with each other, but they still bite their lips and refuse to make a decision to part ways for fear of embarrassing their neighbors, but not them. Did not think that arguing in the morning and evening is not something to be ashamed of?
Friends
Although each person is born with no one who can live alone without friends, if you choose bad friends to associate with, they will lead you to do useless things that lead you to suffer. You have to remember that “having friends is good, but if you have friends, but you do only one thing, it is too much.” Fools like to make friends, but through alcohol and gambling, they only encounter bad things when they are in trouble, and no friend can help them. So you have to choose good friends to help yourself grow.
Work
Of course, work is important for everyone because we are all born to work in order to earn a living. But you also have to know how to choose a job, because not all jobs are right, some jobs are honest, some jobs are bad. If you choose a bad job, a job that you do not like, you are stressed and you can not be happy about having a job.
Things that happen in society
Things that happen in society have a strong influence on the habits of people who live in that society. Obviously, in using the Internet, if people do not use it properly, it will unknowingly endanger that person’s habits. Therefore, users need to know how to choose the program to watch or choose what is useful to be able to help themselves better.
Books
Books can help you grow, but there are also books that do not. Reading a book, you should not read with passion, read with pleasure, but not that it is not useful to the reader, just if you read just for fun, you watch comedy, it helps you enjoy it. Some people say they read a lot, but nothing seems to change! They say so because they do not practice, know or do not know how to choose the book to read. You should choose books that you should read that will help you grow in developing your mindset to be better.
There are many other things that require us to make the right choices to help ourselves to be happy in life. If you make the same choices as I mentioned above, you will have a great deal of growth and happiness in life.
