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It’s human nature to have a couple and having love with each other. People tend to fall in love when they’re feeling lonely not fall in love when they’re ready. When saying ready it’s very complicated for people to be ready and having love. Some said that you have to graduate, having a lot of money, a car, a house, a stable income so on and so forth. But some said you can find your soulmate anytime you want because love is not always for marriage you can just playing around with your partner and break up. There’re many opinions about having love right? So what if you’re a single person and struggling on deciding to have love or not. But if you want to stay single never do these 5 things.
1.Don’t fall in love when you’re lonely but ready:
People tend to fall in love with each other and find a boyfriend/girlfriend only when they feel lonely. And if you’re a single person please make sure to ask yourself that if you’re ready for love or not. Ready it doesn’t mean that you need to have money, a car, house but it is about the time that you can give to each other, take care of each other. It’s very important to give your time to your partner even though you’re very busy. Therefore please consider your time to be ready for your relationship.
2.Never staying alone or make yourself free
Try to go with your friends or be with people who can make you laugh and busy all day. The more you staying alone the more you will get lonely and thinking about having someone to be with. And you know it’s just a short term feeling for you. It doesn’t mean that when you get someone with you and you’ll have a good feeling every time. Instead, you may feel bored because it’s not the feeling of love but the feeling of needing someone to be with when you’re alone.
3.Don’t think love makes you happy
Have you ever felt that love will give you a world full of beauty and happiness? Remember it’s not always going smooth like K-drama that you have watched before. Having love sometimes you need to be patient and tolerant. It’s not about win or lose and complaint about each other fault but it’s about making each other better versions of themselves. Hence, please make sure you’re strong enough to face bad situations.
4.Don’t love other than yourself
Being a single person it’s sure that you will crush on someone. And yes one side of love will happen to you. You may find it’s hard to stop falling in love and sometimes you may feel disappointed, upset, or hurt yourself because of loving someone else alone. However, you can’t beg for love or force that person to love you back that is why you should not love other than loving yourself. When you love yourself first and take good care of yourself, a good person will come into your life. Remember that no one will love a person that never loves themselves.
